PhantomRider wrote:Life has once more drop kicked me. My dad is in the hospital with a collapsed lung, some manner of infection, and possible lung cancer.
I'm tired...
Oh no sweetie!! How did he collapse his lung? Keep me up to date with how he's doing? How's your mom doing?
No one knows. There's no trauma to it. Hospital dr says he might have coughed too hard and popped it. We have no idea at all.
Mom's alright. Stress isn't helping the situation though.
Hate left below, the dark stray dog of war There's no dreams in the waves, only monsters... and the monsters are my only friends.
Update- they're saying surgery to figure out why his lung collapsed when there's no sign of trauma and all that. Also apparently has a bunch of infections running rampant..
I'm tired >.>
Hate left below, the dark stray dog of war There's no dreams in the waves, only monsters... and the monsters are my only friends.
Sending lots of good vibes! At least he seems to be in good hands and theyre acting fast!
I have been there with my girlfriend's mom. Random illness out of nowhere. It was awful and because of a really sh*tty hospital, we lost her a year later.
I've been through this (sorta) with my mom twice last year and now dad. I'm starting to feel the negative effects of being the one responsible for taking care of everything on my own, that's for sure.
Hate left below, the dark stray dog of war There's no dreams in the waves, only monsters... and the monsters are my only friends.
I understand that feeling. It heckin sucks. But going through so much gave me the thickest skin!
After dealing with my gf's moms health for a year, losing her, then on top of it, in the last 2 months over a 7 week time span I lost 5 of my own family members. 2 of which were my grandma's.
If you ever need to talk, my pms are always open!!!
I don't need thicker skin... I've been to nearly 40 funerals in my life. And we just lost my aunt last month.
I've lost my entire social life / chance of having one 'cause I literally can't leave home anymore. Internet is about all I have and even then, I don't have much free time. Trying to reverse almost 20 years of neglect on the house & yard on my own while managing parents' medications and stuff, cat things, and keeping myself alive.
Hate left below, the dark stray dog of war There's no dreams in the waves, only monsters... and the monsters are my only friends.
We're having an argument with the hospital trying to send him home with a cheat tube in and when he can't even walk. He's the only one here who can drive and they know this. I do not know what they're playing at.
Hate left below, the dark stray dog of war There's no dreams in the waves, only monsters... and the monsters are my only friends.
How's your mom doing?
